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How to Avoid Making Dumb Dating Mistakes

These article below are some of the mistakes you should avoid while dating. Dating can be very tricky if you are not careful and know how to go about it. The mistakes that are committed in dating are mainly due to ignorance, bad judgment or misunderstanding of the situation at hand. It is therefore imperative that one should learn to obviate such mistakes, some of which are discussed below.

The first mistake you make is creating a grand image of the man you would like to date. The tall, dark and handsome men are a rare breed, which you have to understand. Most of the men belong to the simple guy category, which you should know, is not their fault. You should learn to accept the fact that Tom Cruises and Brad Pitt are what they are, just dreams. Therefore you need to tone down your expectations.

The second mistake that you tend to make is not being yourself as well. Even if you have been successful in finding the handsome man of your dream, you should also consider that his expectation too will be high regarding his date. Even if you are successful in putting up a fa├žade a time will come when your real self will reveal itself, which might prove disaster. Hence you need to be yourself.

If you desire to have a long relationship you need to be truthful. In the event you find that the man you are dating is not the right one for you, you should come forth about it. If you find that both of you are not compatible, you can discuss the matter with him honestly and part ways. This will save you a lot of complications at a later stage. So, be honest and share your opinion before going deep into the relationship.

The forth and a major mistake that need to avoid is to force him into future commitments at the early stage of dating. Men love their freedom and not willing to give it up easily, therefore you have to be patience and wait for the right moment to broach the subject. You need to give him enough time and let it happen at its own pace. Therefore be patience if you want a firm commitment.

Read more dating mistakes on 8 Dating Mistakes Even Smart Women Make (Yahoo Shine)

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Posted by Kristy - July 27, 2011 at 2:47 am

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