Women Dating Tips

Use Body Language to Attract a Man

If you want to attract the man of your desire, you can do so without speaking out a word. You can use the movement of your body to do so. This attitudes of the body is called body language which you can use to send out the right signals to either attract the right guy or repel the wrong one.

Your eyes
Eye contact is the most important factor in body language. You can begin with sidelong glances and then make direct eye contact. When your eyes meet, lower yours with a smile. He will presume that you were eyeing him and now embarrassed at being caught. Next time, when you look up, hold on to his stare and smile sweetly. This will get him hooked. On the other hand if you find a man staring at you in whom you are not interested, look away and also move away from him. Engage in a conversation with an acquaintance and look around away from that man. This will tell him your disinterest regarding him.

Your dress
Dresses do most of the time create a great impression. If you are on the path to finding the Mr Wright you need to create the first impression with your get up. If you look best, you will naturally feel best and when you go out of you home looking your best, you are sure to attract attention of people amongst whom your gorgeous man might be lurking.

Your hands
Your hands can be very powerful instruments for transmitting messages without direct contact. An open hand shows an open mind, keep your hands open. Stroking your hair, rim of your glass or any part of your dress can convey sensuality and attract attention to you. And if you are bold enough, you can start a conversation with him and in between pretend to brush off something off his coat or jacket or stress your point by touching him. On the other hand if you find the guy’s hands clenched or shoved into his pockets you can take it as a sign of disinterest. Drumming of the table or tapping are also sign language of telling you to move on.

Your stance
You can transmit your interest with your posture as well. Open posture brings forth an open person therefore when you are conversing with your target you should be facing him squarely with your feet flat on the floor, atilt towards him advertising your interest in him. If you are sitting across him cross and uncross your legs often, shoving your chest towards him. He will get the message. While, crossing of arms while holding a drink or turning away are signs of disinterest.
Other signs to look for
•    Copying one another’ body stance is a good sign, but over-doing is not good.
•    Too much attention to food or drinks is a complete put off.
•    If you find your target not responding favorably, abort mission.
•    Do not follow him all night, you will look cheap.

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Posted by Kristy - April 1, 2011 at 8:58 am

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How to Ask Someone Out – A Gal’s Guide

You might have got interested in a guy and have been trying for sometimes to attract his attention but failed in all your attempts. You have tried everything you knew like dressing up, crossing and uncrossing your legs and so on, but failed.

The sad part of such episode is that, it has been woven into the fabric of our society for men to ask the fairer sex out and not the other way round. In addition, if a girl dares to do so, she is immediately tagged as cheap. Therefore, the guy has to be tricked into making the first move. Now you have to adopt ways and means to do this, however the simplest way is to flatter him in various ways.

Guys are very egoistic which makes them vain and not easily influenced in any manner. But they do love attention which serves to boost their self ego. Therefore, in order to attract their interest, you can use the following tactics.

Tactic #1 – You can start by copying him. For example, when he crosses or uncrosses his legs, you do the same; or when he does any other action you too follow suit – make sure he is aware of you. Try to laugh aloud at his disgusting jokes.

Tactic #2 – Girls rearranging hair is a sight guys love to see, hence do so in front of him. If you want to add zing to it, just ask him to do it for you. He might not be an expert but he will love getting close to you and feel flattered.

Tactic #3 – Bump into him and say ‘sorry’. This is a dynamic one and you might end up having his phone number.

Most guys are not good at interpreting body language and it might so happen that the above tactics might not work and eventually you have to ask him out yourself directly.

Another guide for gals: http://www.wikihow.com/Ask-a-Guy-Out

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